The biggest lie in self-help is this: You don’t “find” yourself. People spend their whole lives searching, as if who they are is buried somewhere far away. But you’re not hidden treasure... You’re not waiting under a rock to be discovered. You don’t find yourself. You invent yourself. That’s why the Torah says: לא בשמים היא It’s not in Heaven. Not distant. It’s right here; in your mouth, your heart, your action. Life isn’t about discovering who you are. It’s about tearing away the false picture,

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This is my 36 Hour Prime Rib from last year. It’s one of the best things I have made and I wanted to share this again as it’s a fool proof way to cook a prime rib for the holidays. It starts off with a beautiful rib roast. The one I used here was a choice grade roast from Costco weighing around 5 lbs. The first thing I did was trim off the fat cap. That layer had some silverskin which is not the most pleasant to eat, and removing it let me season the meat from all sides. I seasoned it heavily wi